For these few months for this few days, I wonder and think a lot. What in my mind is, I need to get a new life a new me that way different. I don't want to care more on what other might think. It doesn't matter anymore. Each time when my friend told me of what they decide or do, I will ask them " Will you be happy with it?" and then they will think before answer me.
If they say yes, then I will wish them all the best as that is what they want. Decision is important and I keep this on my mind but I found out that sometimes it is better not to decide but to think of the effect it will bring and go for it. No turning back.
Last few days, it seem like few week for me. I think of one thing. Who actually is my real friend? In my mind I think of few people, from primary to secondary to Form 6 and University. I think I know who are my real friends. At least they will think of you or at least asking " How are you today?" or even updating on what actually they going through. One of my friend pointed out something and I quite understand. I try to be less of it. Too much care on other without thinking of myself. Yes, I should love myself before I love other. So, do you ever think of other people too? Or too selfish just for own self? I wonder... How pity it will be...
But I know that I am a person that willing to listen to anyone when they need me... But how about me? I found few people to talk to at least I know who they are... I do know soon the busier life be, the harder it will be... But sometimes we can't expect everyone the same as we are...Maybe we need to evaluate our friendship...We can't expect other to understand us when they ( friend ) also didn't actually understand us as well. That's for true. But friendship is believing and trust. When it all gone then nothing left. What left is a so call "friend".
A friend once told me. She don't mind what other will regard her as best friend or not, she still will treat her friend as friend. At least she is open and she is a good girl to consult to in matter what, about job or others. But when they tell us, they also pour out what in their heart. We get to know each other more. That is good. That is friend who wouldn't treat you as nobody when thing around her change.
Have you ever come to situation where you feel that a friend actually seem to treat you differently from other people? Why? People will say it was just you being sensitive of it but actually it was the fact. Will you ever treat people badly when your mood is bad? But in the same time treat other as usual? Maybe, is it people should be less friendly than it be. Regard them as someone who you know not more than that so called hi bye friend. Seriously, will you accept a friend who always try to tease you all the time? Joking is common but will you ever think before you say out or just can't stop teasing people? Everyone have their own problem. So don't try to use that excuse for treating people badly.. It totally way not cool.
I understand when we step in to the world of working, we will become busy day by day. But, that isn't the way to shut people away from you.. It just a lame excuse. I wonder if you sit down alone, what will you feel? Everything seem quiet and it was your off day, your hand-phone totally silent. What will you think? At this moment, don't you ever try to say that they are not your friend nor saying they are busy or whatever. Think of it again. What actually you do all this while. It was because you keep ignoring them and they feel it, slowly they drifting apart from you. Think of it again!
Anyway, what I could say is "I need you"because............
- Boys are naturally stronger than girls. they can protect themselves so they're more independent, whereas girls always need to ask for assistance.
- Girls have menstrual cycles.
- Girls get pregnant when they have sex.
- Girls have to go through extremely painful labor and childbirth if they want children.
- It's more important for a girl to be goodlooking than it is for a guy to be goodlooking. It's much easier for an ugly guy with a great personality to get a pretty girl than it is for an ugly girl with a good personality to get a handsome guy.
- It's EVEN MORE important for a girl to be in shape than it is for a guy to be in shape. It's MUCH easier for a fat guy with a great personality to get a pretty girl than it is for an fat girl with a good personality to get a handsome guy.
- Girls lose attractiveness with age. It's usually all downhill once they hit 30 or 35. Guys can still be attractive at the age of 60 or 65.
- Guys are attractive with or without scars. A girls with scars all over her? Huge turn off.
- A guy sleeps with a million girls and he's a pimp; everyone loves him. A girl sleeps with a million guys and she's a slut; no one respects her.
- Girls have to shave/pluck/wax everything.
- Guys rape girls, girls don't rape guys, so girls have to be more careful about safety.
- It's more costly to be a girl bc they need to buy so many beauty products.
- Men make more money than women.
- Guys can treat girls like shit and girls will still love them. It doesn't matter how a girl treats a guy, it's so much more rare for a guy to stay with or stay loyal to a girl.
and there's other reasons i just can't think of them all right now. there's one positive thing about being a girl though.. a girl won't get made fun of if she acts lesbian or if she actually is, but for guys it's different. when it all comes down to it though, life is so much easier if ur a guy.
I think we have same opinion but except being a lesbian and no. 13. But I admit that being a guy way much more easier than a girl!! Guy don't try to deny this ! :P
Well sometimes, not everyone the same just that they might be similar.... So Girl & Guy, try to understand each other... OKay...= END=
- Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls. ( Are you sure about this? hmm...)
- Guys hate other flirts. ( Okay, this acceptable )
- A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards. ( Boys are boys)
- When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is. ( Well because he also don't understand us )
- Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering. ( This is okay, at least have the effort to communicate)
- Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. ( Hmm... I believe so )
- When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics. ( Need to ask them about this but it maybe... )
- Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile. ( I think this depend on the girl too..... *thinking* )
- Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention. ( Yah.... )
- Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend. ( This for sure as they will feel being compare, is it ? )
- When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so ( This is okay, good guy :P )
- Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalize ( Hmm... I don't really like people who drink nor smoke... Hmm... But ya... )
- Guys cry!!! ( Ya.. we are human... You may cry but not in front of us :p )
- Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will. ( Er...... )
- Guys can never dream and hope too much. ( Is it? )
- Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat. ( Yeah... Could say so... )
- When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back. ( Hmmm... how do we know? )
- Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. ( Oh, like that. But sometimes girl didn't mean it.. Try to ask Girl....why )
- Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite – Whatever. ( Huh? Is it? Maybe.... )
- Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. ( True.. )
- When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you. ( Okay! Now I know... )
- When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”. So true. ( This so funny haha... Then Guy should try understand Girl )
- You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly. ( Ya... Need tell them straight what you want but Girl usually want to see whether the Guy understand she or not..)
- Guys hate gays! ( No comment )
- Guys love their moms. ( Acceptable.. Mum is angel )
- A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses. ( Wow.... Sure deep love )
- A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her. ( Then don't think :P )
- You can never understand him unless you listen to him. ( Girl do listen .... right, Girl? )
- If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does. ( Sweet :) )
- Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can. ( OMG!! That make Guys are the King of Gossip ..Haha )
- Like Eve, girls are guys weaknesses. ( Er...... )
- Guys are very open about themselves. ( Oh ya.. Is it ? )
- It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long. ( Hmm.... I seem to understand this )
- No guy is bad when he is courting ( Oh ! )
- Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot. ( Wow... like smart & neat ..is it? )
- Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty. ( Okay...o )
- Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend. ( Then should be with that Girl la if admire dy ! :@ )
- If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice…….very true. ( Oh... no need advice.. so true )
- A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. ( HUH?? Really ?? >.< )
- A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else. ( LOL... should be open ma.. since Guy also the same )
- Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sumtimes. ( Yay..sometimes )
- Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one. ( haah.. So true... Not sensitive enough )
- Guys virtually brag about anything. ( Yup! agree ... Too EGO )
- Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them. ( Yup.. but depend... on type of Guy )
- Guys think too much. ( Er.. I though is Girl think too much ...)
- Guys’ fantasies are unlimited. ( Yup.... zzzz )
- Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true. (Ya.. Very true Hmmmphhh!!! )
- Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!! ( Errrrr.........)
- When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl. ( Hmm.. maybe.. Is it true? )
- It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more. ( I think so.... )
- You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy. ( Ya ba.... but..... )
- A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up. ( not mature..then at least still can think..... )
- When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically. ( Er..... Don't do that! )
- Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power. ( Slowly change lo..... take time )
- Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..sumtimes depends wen they want something. ( Real... )
- When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous. ( Oh.... That is good )
- When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is. ( ya..I know )
- When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”……sumtimes. ( Sometimes only ba..... )
- Guys don’t really have final decisions. ( Really ???? )
- When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him. ( No comment )
- If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very important. ( No comment )
- If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something. ( Huh..... Why need say something? )
- Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong. ( No comment )
- Guys like femininity not feebleness. ( Oh ya?........ )
- Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do. ( Don't really understand this.. what do it mean? )
- A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him. ( Huh? Then??? Do this mean Girl need to take the first step? )
- A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups. ( Agree!!! )
- Guys love girls who can cook or bake. ….they love u regardless. ( Now.. Guy do know how to cook right.... :) )
- Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!……true but only wen the guys are ready 2be settled down. ( Yup... )
- A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes. ( This is for sure but who don't have problem.. tell me...who? )
- A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage. ( Ya..usually Guy Friend know more... Just like Girl... )
- Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection. ( Is it.. Then how about Guy??? ...... )
- Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised. ( Both side the same la!! )
- Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys. ( Hahaha.... Funny..........)
- Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls. ( Wow... couldn't agree more.. :P)
- Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well. ( Huh??? )
- Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more. ( Owh... so sweet... )
- When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite. ( What kind of joke is that??? )
- Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls. ( Oh ..Really ??)
- Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong. ( Ya... Don't Judge The Book By It's Cover !! )
- Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it. ( Then please don't !! Just do it and don't pile up..)
- Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears. (Huh???? Don't understand...)
- Guys’ weakest point is at the knee. ( Then???? )
- When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out. ( This good.... refer no.38 quite the same meaning )
- When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things. ( hmmmmmmmmm.................)
- When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed by you or he’s criticizing you. ( Bad..... but don't care )
- When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him. ( Ya!! No 3rd chance :P )
- If a guy lets you go, he really loves you. ( Thumb up..... but why want let you go??? Unless Girl like other Guy... )
- If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does. ( Ohhhh............................... )
- Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience. ( Ya.................... Then? )
- You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you! ( Huh....... Totally in pain! )
- If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why. ( Ya.... should ask why.. but will they say the true or what? )
- When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you. ( Yeerrrr....So mean..... Be careful of this GUY!! )
- You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes. :)
- Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl. ( LO... this weird cause no. 38 say different....which is true??? )
- Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair! ( Then don't ! :P )
- If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you. ( Er... Really? But if everyone also Guy say the same then no use lo :P )
- Guys hate girls who overreact. ……sumtimes. ( Ya..sometimes.. But Girl also the same la... )
- Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships. ( THIS FOR SURE.... )
Anyway, I was playing poker games and a bit headache of it. So, I went online check mail, Facebook-ing and then I found this, “Bro, don’t like that la bro”. It’s quite funny, as normally guy will say these words and I only realize it was a blog! Well, being a curios person, I click on the link and on the page, I saw comic. Actually, at that time I do not realize that it was a post in the blog. So, I keep on clicking and saw all the pictures (comics) and realize the main post for the blog is comics! I keep looking and clicking on the comics to view all of them. I can’t stop laughing. Oh my God! It was funny and yes, I read the script on the comic. That’s part of a comic. Interesting enough, the comics describe on what happen between them, a group of friends. Thus, I believe all the character is real. I like the characters drawn, they look real. Hmm..maybe I should ask the blogger who is also the cartoonist for the comic about it.
The blogger had show the illustration on the main point and main subject from starting of its comics. He actually relate on what happen around him into a comic which I feel like a comedy. One of the characters seems a bit out of his mind (Opss, do I say that) but it blend in as he seem to be the one which bring in the fun in the comic (I don’t want to say which one).
Looking all the comics, I saw the comic title “Preparing Instant Noodles”. At the first block it a bit boring as we know how to cook Instant Noodles (maggie mee) even small kids do know how. But when look on the next character, thing become interesting and at the end it make people burst into laughter. I wouldn’t say what happen as you should check it out!
By the way, I had asked permission to write this. This isn’t publicity but a sharing. Mind I borrow the home page, below.
So, check it out! Click ---> Bro, don’t like that la bro to see and read on the blog !! :) You may leave comment on his blog.
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Tong Hua Lyrics
In my heart I am wondering. Will it happen, that one day I will found the person who really care & love me?忘了有多久
wang le you duo jiu
I’ve forgotten how long it has been再沒聽到你
zai mei ting dao ni
Since the last time I heard you
對我說你最愛的故事
dui wo shuo ni zui ai de gu shi
Tell me your favorite story
我想了很久
wo xiang le hen jiu
I have thought for a long time
我開始慌了
wo kai shi huang le
I start to panic
是不是我又做錯了什麼
shi bu shi wo you zuo cuo le shen me
Wondering if I have done something wrong again
你哭著對我說
ni ku zhe dui wo shuo
You told me as you cried
童話裡都是騙人的
tong hua li dou shi pian ren de
That everything in fairy tales are all lies
我不可能是你的王子
wo bu ken neng shi ni de wang zi
I couldn’t possibly be your prince.
也許你不會懂
ye xu ni bu hui dong
But perhaps you don’t understand either
從你說愛我以后
cong ni shuo ai wo yi hou
Ever since you told me you loved me
我的天空星星都亮了
wo de tian kong xing xing dou liang le
All the stars in my sky have brightened.
我願變成童話裡
wo yuan bian cheng tong hua li
I’m willing to become the one in the fairy tale
你愛的那個天使
ni ai de ne ge tian shi
The angel that you love
張開雙手
zhang kai shuang shou
I extend this pair of hands
變成翅膀守護你
bian cheng chi bang shou hu ni
and turn them into wings to protect you
你要相信
ni yao xiang xin
You must believe
相信我們會像童話故事裡
xiang xin wo men hui xiang tong hua gu shi li
Believe we will be like we are in a fairy tale
幸福和快樂是結局
xing fu he kuai le shi jie ju
Where blessings and happiness is the ending
Chorus start with你哭著對我說
我願變成童話裡
wo yuan bian cheng tong hua li
I’m willing to become the one in the fairy tale
Chorus cont with你愛的那個天使Chorus x2
我会變成童話裡
wo hui bian cheng tong hua li
I will to become the one in the fairy tale
你愛的那個天使
ni ai de ne ge tian shi
The angel that you love
張開雙手
zhang kai shuang shou
I extend this pair of hands
變成翅膀守護你
bian cheng chi bang shou hu ni
and turn them into wings to protect you
你要相信
ni yao xiang xin
You must believe
相信我們會像童話故事裡
xiang xin wo men hui xiang tong hua gu shi li
Believe we will be like we are in a fairy tale
幸福和快樂是結局
xing fu he kuai le shi jie ju
Where blessings and happiness is the ending
一起寫我們的結局
yi qi xie wo me de jie ju
Together we can write our own ending
Picture taken from blog 
Poem title : My Last VisitP/s: This post is dedicated to my friend. Be strong and take care...
